“Top 5 Ways Narcissists Use Money to Control” with Jason Crowley on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #232

TOP 5 WAYS NARCISSISTS USE MONEY TO CONTROL//Did you know that money is one of the most popular weapons that narcissists use to control and abuse their targets?   A recent survey we conducted revealed that money is overwhelmingly the ammunition of choice for narcissists.  In this interview, Rebecca talks  with financial planner and narcissism expert, Jason Crowley, on the top 5 ways that narcissists use money to control their targets and victims and even more importantly, what you can do to plan and protect yourself.  

More About Jason

Jason Crowley is a founding partner of Divorce Capital Planning, co-founder of Divorce Mortgage Advisors, founder of Survive Divorce, and financial advisor at Capital Planning Partners. As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jason works with our clients and their attorneys to formulate creative options to complicated settlement issues. He specializes in developing comprehensive financial projections to analyze, address, and evaluate all facets of a divorce settlement. Jason has experience modeling cash flow projections and facilitating the division of complex assets such as stock options, business and venture capital interests, and real estate investments.

Jason has extensive training in family law specific Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. He is an active member in a number of professional associations including the Association of Divorce Financial Planners, Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, as well as the California State Bar and County Bar Associations. He is a frequent guest speaker on the financial and tax issues in divorce for local organizations and divorce professionals. Previously, Jason served as a financial planner with Wealth Strategies Group. He began his professional career as a financial analyst at Commerce Capital Group, a boutique investment banking firm specializing in mergers and acquisitions (M&A) advisory services.

Jason earned a bachelor’s degree in Business Economics and Accounting from the University of California, Santa Barbara, where he graduated summa cum laude. Jason has the distinction of being one of the select few financial professionals to hold the Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA), Certified Financial Planner (CFP), and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) credentials.  He also holds the Financial Industry Regulatory (FINRA) Series 7 and 66 licenses. A Bay area native, Jason resides in Menlo Park.

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“The Narcissist’s Favorite Sayings” on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #231

NARCISSISTS FAVORITE SAYINGS// Did you know that one of the ways you can spot a narcissist is through the things they say? There are many classic narcissist catchphrases and favorite sayings that they use as a part of their toolkit of devalue tactics.  Listen to this episode with host Rebecca Zung to find out what narcissists say and what they actually mean when they are saying these things.

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“Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life” with Gary John Bishop on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #230

Have you ever just felt like you are your own worst enemy?  Or just so ready to feel better and create a new life.  In this frank, direct and powerful conversation, Rebecca chats with New York Times Bestselling author Gary John Bishop, who shares why it isn't other people who are standing in your way, or even circumstances that are blocking your ability to thrive, it's the the idiot voices in your head.   His books have sold more than 2 millions copies, so come listen, learn and start unfu*king yourself today! 

More about Gary

About the author: GARY JOHN BISHOP is one of the leading personal development experts in the industry. He is the New York Times bestselling author of Unf__ Yourself, as well as Stop Doing that Sh_t and Do the Work, and forthcoming Wise As F__.  His “urban philosophy” approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has helped more than one million readers achieve miraculous results. Newest book Ask Gary F’ing Anything  More at www.GaryJohnBishop.com

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“Mind Power: How to Have a Winning Negotiation Mindset” with Mark Raffan on Negotiation Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #229

Are you getting ready to negotiate and just feel like you can never win? Or that the other side is more powerful?   It is so common.  Only 7% of women and 57% of men have ever negotiated their salaries.  Most people hate conflict and negotiation can feel like conflict.   In this episode, Rebecca talks with the Negotiation Ninja, Mark Raffan, who gives real strategies, tactics and steps for developing a winning mindset, which is so critical especially when you're negotiating or dealing with narcissists or other high conflict personalities.  If you want a to win your negotiation or at least get a favorable result, developing a winning mindset isn't just one thing you need to do, it's actually critical.  80% of a negotiation is won before you enter the room, and 50% of that 80% is your mindset.  Mark gives negotiation examples and explains the difference between a win-win and a win-lose negotiation.  If you want to create a winning mindset, listen to this episode.  

More About Mark

Mark Raffan – Founder of Content Callout and host of Negotiations Ninja

Mark is a serial entrepreneur and lover of marketing and influence. Mark built the #1 negotiation podcast in the world and is an expert negotiation, influence, and persuasion. He has coached executives and teams in some of the largest companies in the world.  Learn more about Mark right here:  www.negotiations.ninja  and check out his podcast right here:   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/negotiations-ninja-podcast/id1300435924 

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“Get Over It: How to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse” with Dr. Judy Rosenberg on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #228

HEALING FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE//Have you fallen victim to narcissistic abuse? Do you want to know if it’s possible to heal after narcissistic discarding and how long it might take to recover? The aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be painful and recovering from a narcissistic relationship can be difficult and even feel impossible.  In this episode, Rebecca talks with Dr. Judy Rosenberg, who has developed the Mind Map System, which provides an actual strategy and framework to heal so you can take back your life. Listen to this episode to learn more about how to heal from narcissistic abuse and how to thrive once that narcissist is out of your life for good. This originally ran as a 2 part interview on YouTube.  Watch Part 1 here and Part 2 here.  

MORE ABOUT DR. JUDY ROSENBERG

Dr. Judy Rosenberg is founder of the Psychological Healing Center and the Be The Cause® Mind Map System to help “Heal Human Disconnect,” the cause of most psychopathology. By helping people identify their problem and dismantle it, Dr. Judy helps patients paradigm shift from the problem into the solution. She completed her undergraduate work in psychology at UCLA and her graduate work at CGI (California Graduate Institute).

 Dr. Rosenberg is a consultant to the media and has appeared on several television shows including: Huffington Post, MTV, E Entertainment, KCAL News, CBS News, CNN, and Animal Planet. She has been in private practice as a clinical psychologist since 1996.

Dr. Rosenberg is author of hew new book Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect the culmination of her work on Healing Human Disconnect. She is also author of Dr. Judy’s Habit Breakers Stop Smoking Plan (over 250,000 copies sold), and author of Lucid Darkness, a psychological thriller about a psychologist whose life mission is to help heal Human Disconnect.

Dr. Judy has a weekly call-in radio show titled Dr. Judy WTF (What The Freud)! Her focus is on healing the “hole in the soul” that results from Human Disconnect.

Dr. Judy is currently in private practice in Sherman Oaks and Beverly Hills CA, and continues to help people with various psychological issues. She is currently training professionals in her Mind Map System.

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“Moving On: How to Get Over the Narcissist” with Joanna Kleinman on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #227

Are you trying so hard to get over a narcissist and the drama, trauma and chaos they caused in your life?  If you still feel hurt, stuck, trapped, or wounded, and are just so ready to start moving past those toxic thoughts and feelings, this episode is a must listen.  Psychologist, life coach and creating of the program Dethroning Your Inner Critic, Joanna Kleinman is talking with Rebecca in this episode.  Not one single one of us has escaped the clutches of a runaway mind.   If you want real tools to get rid of the head trash, the spinning out into the concentric circles of hell (i.e. worry, anxiety and fear), do yourself a favor and give yourself the gift of this 30 minutes with Joanna.  It's powerful stuff.   

This episode was also featured as a 2 part series on YouTube.  If you'd like to watch it there, you can find Part 1 RIGHT HERE, and Part 2 RIGHT HERE.  

More about Joanna

“Negotiating Difficult Conversations About Race (And Anything Else) with Kwame Christian, Esq. on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #226

Do you fret or have anxiety over how to have a difficult conversation?   How about how to have a difficult conversation about race?   In this riveting episode, Rebecca speaks with Kwame Christian.   Kwame is a successful attorney, TEDx Speaker, the founder of the American Negotiation Institute and host of one of the top negotiation podcasts in the world, and he's also an African American who has experienced racism.   During this period of crazy turmoil in the world, this is one of the most important conversations to listen to.   He goes through his 3 STEP foolproof methodology for how to have difficult conversations about race, and how to have any kind of difficult conversation.  If you are dealing with narcissists, toxic personalities, or just difficult people or situations in general, this episode is a must listen.   

MORE ABOUT KWAME

Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A. is the Director of the American Negotiation Institute where he conducts negotiation and conflict management workshops around the country. As an attorney and mediator with a bachelor of arts in Psychology, a Master of Public Policy, and a law degree, Kwame brings a unique multidisciplinary approach to making difficult conversations easier. In addition to his role with the American Negotiation Institute, Kwame also serves as a professor at The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law, the top-ranked dispute resolution program in the country, and Otterbein University’s MBA program.

He is the author of the best selling book Nobody Will Play With Me: How to Use Compassionate Curiosity to Find Confidence in Conflict and his TEDx Talk, Finding Confidence in Conflict, was the most popular TED Talk on the topic of conflict of 2017. Kwame also hosts the top negotiation podcast in the world, Negotiate Anything. The show has been downloaded over 1,000,000 times and has listeners in 183 different countries.

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“Negotiating Your Personal Declaration of Independence” with Emma Johnson on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #225

Are you getting ready to make a huge life change because of divorce, death or other major transition?   Emma Johnson, the founder of the uber popular blog, Wealthy Single Mommy, talks about how she decided not to depend on anyone or anything after her divorce.  With two small children in tow, and an ex husband who has suffered a major health setback, she set out to create a life for herself that nothing and no-one could mess with.  She shares her personal struggles of what she had to overcome and how she did it.   If you're ready to declare your own personal declaration of independence, this episode is a must listen.   

More About Emma Johnson

Emma Johnson, is the founder of the popular blog Wealthy Single Mommy. A former Associated Press financial wire reporter and MSN Money columnist, Johnson has written for the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and Forbes, among other publications.     She is the author of the book, The Kickass Single Mom: Be Financially Independent, Discover Your Sexiest Self, and Raise Fabulous, Happy Children. It hit Amazon’s #1 bestseller list, was named by the New York Post as a ‘Smart, Must-Read’ and got shout-outs in more than 150 media outlets. 

As an expert, she has been invited to write op-eds for the New York Times, profiled in the New York Post and appeared on CNN, Headline News, the Wall Street Journal, Forbes, U.S. News, Inc., MONEY magazine, TIME magazine, CBS Marketwatch, Woman’s Day, NPR, Fox&Friends, Oprah.com, Jenny McCarthy Radio, and hundreds of others.

Awards and shout-outs include:

• Parents magazine named Wealthysinglemommy ‘Best of the Web.’
• New York Observer named me to its “9 Most Eligible Singles” list.
• My podcast, Like a Mother, was named by U.S. News as a ‘Top Personal Finance Podcast.’

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“Sneaky Things Narcissists Do in Divorce” with Kim Saeed Part 2 on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #224

SNEAKY THINGS NARCISSISTS DO IN DIVORCE//Are you divorcing a narcissist? If so, you need to be beware of the things narcissists do to try to take you down in divorce. Narcissists are master manipulators so divorcing them is the ultimate challenge. You need to be prepared for an all out war. Kim Saeed @letmereach, narcissist expert and top divorce coach knows all about it because she lived it. She shares her secrets right here in this Part 2 of a 2 part series. So if you want to know what tricks narcissists pull in divorce, what the stages are in divorcing a narcissist, and some strong strategies for divorcing a narcissist, check out this episode.  This episode also ran as a YouTube video which you can view RIGHT HERE. 

MORE ABOUT KIM

Kim Saeed is a narcissist recovery coach, popular YouTuber and narcissist survivor herself.   Her narcissistic abuse recovery program, The Essential Break Free Bootcamp, has been voted the #1 Online Recovery Program for Narcissistic Abuse—she's created a healing revolution that’s improved the lives of thousands of brave thrivers all over the world.

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“Sneaky Things Narcissists Do in Divorce” Part 1 with Kim Saeed on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #223

SNEAKY THINGS NARCISSISTS DO IN DIVORCE//Are you divorcing a narcissist? If so, you need to be beware of the things narcissists do to try to take you down in divorce. Narcissists are master manipulators so divorcing them is the ultimate challenge. You need to be prepared for an all out war. Kim Saeed @letmereach, narcissist expert and top divorce coach knows all about it because she lived it. She shares her secrets right here in this Part 1 of a 2 part series. So if you want to know what tricks narcissists pull in divorce, what the stages are in divorcing a narcissist, and some strong strategies for divorcing a narcissist, check out this episode.  This episode also ran as a YouTube video which you can view RIGHT HERE. 

MORE ABOUT KIM

Kim Saeed is a narcissist recovery coach, popular YouTuber and narcissist survivor herself.   Her narcissistic abuse recovery program, The Essential Break Free Bootcamp, has been voted the #1 Online Recovery Program for Narcissistic Abuse—she's created a healing revolution that’s improved the lives of thousands of brave thrivers all over the world.

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